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A fresh lease

A little bit of everyone survives in us, our ancestors, our parents, or friends, relations close to us, our spouse, our kids, our pets.. life is connected.

We have different personalities but in this busy world we often do not look at the world from 'what we are', but we look at it from the perspective of 'how we ought to'. For e.g. I am a carefree person, who does not feel bothered about what anyone says, but I am careful, because for being part of a society which gives you so much (from pieces of pie to pieces of mind) we tend to cooperate, adjust and become someone we are not.

And it continues, and we evolve like this, some early, some later, some never, it does not matter to anyone but just to yourself. How we perceive the world depends upon what part of everyone is surviving and of all thats happening around you what part of it you attribute to whom?

Its difficult? No, you don't have to do that exercise. You just have to be. Be yourself.
Most importantly, enjoy being yourself. Its not difficult. You need to let go of inhibitions you have nurtured inside you bit by bit, right now, or gradually. Because soon you will understand that the strength that God, Parents, Family & Friends gave you was inside you, they kindled a torch which was your mind, your heart. It was you who had that courage always,.

There are situations which you want to control, those which you want to let go off, then again those, which you ought to be careful about considering the web that you have spun all across yourself, and you sometimes feel safe in that web and sometimes threatened.

Remember, its your web, you cant be trapped in it. If there was a way in, there is a way out which only your mind can fathom. You are capable to escape from complicated mazes'. Just don't give up.

Never feel you are alone. All you need is yourself. Your perceived social worth is at-least double of your perceived self worth, so just smile and walk up towards your destination.

You have to turn your energies inside out and grant yourself a fresh lease of life. Now!
(My family - my most valued and treasured life extensions)

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